Fruit Sweet

Who doesn’t want joy in his or her life? Or fulfillment? Perhaps even a sense of effectiveness? For one who longs for things of the Spirit, maybe a sense of rightness before God?  An unlikely place to find answers is along the rows of grapevines.  But Jesus did just that with his best friends one day.  He was near the end of his time physically on the planet (he would experience the worst death, and then conquer same death, in literally hours) and, sensing the tenseness in this followers due to a sense of the climactic in his ministry, took them for a stroll… through a vineyard.

He took them back to some really basic ideas in order to assure them life as they knew it was not really tottering on the brink of disaster.  The basics of being with God is a good place to return if tottering is in one’s life. Maybe some of what Jesus said can be seen as A-B-C’s…

A – Abide. Not really a word we use these days, but it means to live within the space of something.  Italiano is “abitare” and includes things like flats, houses, etc.  We really don’t stay in one place very long these days.  My wife told me that, since we have been married (22 years ago) we have lived in sixteen different “homes!”  We move a lot.  Perhaps, this is an important “basic” for us all.  God is bigger than where we live, or what we call home.  And though we may move from house, to flat, from city to country, from one continent or time zone to another — God is bigger, and He is there.  Find your home in God. Abide in Him. Abide in His love.

B – Befriend. This one did not translate well into Italiano.  Perhaps it means make friends, be faithful as a friend, keep friends close.  Jesus put it like this: love one another just like I have loved you.  Share life like I have shared my life with you.  When we live in His love, His love comes out in our lives, and spills into our friendships.  If friendships are hard for you, make sure you are first living in Christ.  Then, step out of the zone of the familiar and risk the first steps of making friends. Here’s a cliche – friendship is spelled t-i-m-e.  Quaint, but true.

C – Carry. He said at the end of his vineyard lesson that he would not leave his friends (and by extension, his friends today) alone.  God is not just Jesus; He is also Spirit.  And the best thing Jesus could do was leave, so He could send the Spirit.  He would carry to His followers the remembrance and assurance of who he is; and he would give his friends the right words to say so others could find God.

Abiding includes what the ancients, and generations of seekers call, Disciplines of the Faith. Prayer, worship, Scripture study, fasting, meditation, quiet time, etc.  But abiding is more than a brief time with one of these disciplines.  It is an all day, here-I-am-listening-and-honoring attitude.

We can get fully engaged in projects and our desktops, virtual and otherwise, can get cluttered and out of control busy. Remember that people come first before the projects.  Make points in your day that are all about others. Befriend others instead of taking on extra alone-time work.

And if you are in transition in your spiritual life, seeking wisdom on how to proceed and how to seek God.  Perhaps you have counted years of walking with God, but it’s a new time for you to take it all deeper and fresh.  Read the Gospel of John chapter 15 all the way through a few times.  Especially the verses about pruning and cutting away. As I write this, all around my village of Torre Pellice are snipping away all the branches from the main trunk, and getting ready for the year’s harvest. Cutting off what would be in the way of what really matters.  Sounds painful, I know, but necessary to make room for the best life you’ll ever have.  Give him back something that has stood in the way of your love for him. Honor God by giving him more space in your life.  The results? Joy, fulfillment, effectiveness, and a sense of rightness before God.

Ciao — for the Journey!



  1. appuntivita said,

    01/06/2009 at 10:12 am

    Ciao! Glad to meet you guys in Appunti Vita. I really do need to write an “about me” page. My wife and I are working in northern Italy with a group called Operation Mobilization as disciple-makers, leader trainers, and pastoral care leaders. Learning the language, culture, etc. and enjoying everyday as a gift. We join you in your prayers for Italy. Thanks for commenting. (I am posting a fifteen day devotional study on the “Fire Proof” – hope you enjoy. God’s fire touching us and in us is proof we are His and He is active in us!) All For Him, Rick

  2. 30/05/2009 at 2:22 pm

    Ciao! Although we live in the US, we have many family (most) in Italy – we pray continually for all of them – some in Jehovah’s Witness (very active in Italy), some Catholic, and the usual agnostics. When living in Italy, it becomes so apparent to follow the metaphors of the olive tree and the walk Jesus would have us all take in our lives.
    One suggestion – please make an ‘about page’ to fill more of us in on your info – I look forward to following your lessons!

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